People...(3)

i can definitely not let go of this thread without mentioning the people who make u feel good about knowing them...importantly irrespective of how good or bad u r to them... the people of whom ur principal good memories r made of ...
the previous posts on "people" were more of observation & less of personal experience...but this one has a dash of personal experience by personifying the observations...
the sameer & amit dadas ...(security givers).the ones those pamper u with unconditional love & heart warming brotherly security...the ones u know r 1 call apart even at midnight...the ones u know would never mention if they r bothered coz of u...& (only u 2 can love me- from doing my stupid school homework to the extent of tying my shoe laces...love u so much)
the Audrie misses ...(the confidence boosters) the ones that try their best to showcase ur talents to the rest of the world...the ones that imbibe confidence in the foundation age... the ones that selflessly  give u opportunities to prove urself & applaud when u start becoming a go getter.... at a tender age this is what matters a lot...

the dharinis...(the "i am always there for u ones")the ones those stand by u through thick & thin...the ones who genuinely care...the ones u can share ur vulnerability with...the ones who'll fight hell with u but kill those who'll lay a finger on u...ur partners in crime...:)...the ones who define a sister :)
the guddi tais ...(the foster moms) the ones who selflessly act as a foster mom to u....the ones whose eyes keep getting moist when u meet them after long...the ones who bully u & u actually dont mind it...:)
the sister maritas...(the true critics) ...the ones who blast u enough to make u push ur thresholds of perfection higher & also make u silently curse them &...then end up telling ur parents they r lucky enough to have u...
the monus(bhai/dadu)...(the support systems) ... the ones u can trust with ur decisions...the ones who'd think 10 times before commenting on ur decisions taking care nothing goes wrong with u...  the ones that just dont let u give up...
the pujas ...(chod na yaar ones)... the ones that blow off ur worries & dont let u fret at all...the ones that make u feel happy & only happy when they r around...
the mayurs... ( the good humans) ... the ones that make u believe in humanity & that it still exists...the ones those r ever ready to help...the ones those who share cute kiddo memories with :)
the suvarnas ...(the obligers)...the ones who may not get one square meal a day but still they oblige u by their heartfelt "duas" ... "from the bottom of the heart" wishes are the rarest these days...
the rishabhs...(friends for life)...the ones those make u feel special...the ones who help u restore ur self faith when it gets unstable at times...the ones those understand that mood swings dont define a person...the ones that dont judge u from instances...the ones who genuinely care...
the shwetas ...(friends for life)...the ones who actually make u sit & think if u 2 had a past life relation coz sudden proximity remains unanswered...the ones that don't need words to be explained...the connection works...
the vishals ....(the trustworthy)...the ones those r impulsive , impressionable & lock horns very often but those who u can talk ur heart out...the ones those u might have superficial differences with but u know they wont ever breach ur trust...
the amits...(the chivalrous)...the ones who know how to talk to a woman....the ones whose concern doesn't smell of male chauvinism....

more shades of people coming up soon...

         

People...(2)

& the list continues....

the keyboard warriors... those who r physically, mentally or more of intellectually incapable of facing u or in other words those gutless cowards who make use of the keyboard as a weapon and actually be happy about it  are the ones i call keyboard warriors or the biggest losers... 

the "well" tadpoles ...the loser egoists surrounded by their good for nothing ego &  similar people as their world ,who actually refuse to creep out of their false world & face the real world just because they know they wont survive...

the slang hurlers ...a bunch of insecure & "scared from within" craps who exhibit how  scared they r by making slang come to their rescue...

the "self assumed - clever" selfish... the ones who think they have so called cleverly wrapped their selfish motives in sugar coated words of concern & they feel the rest of the world is dumb enough to buy it...

the "convenient" amnesiacs...the ones who conveniently forget a good Samaritan's deed coz of either exceptionally low self worth resulting into intentional impaired vision to any good done to them ever; or materialistic motives... i keep bumping into this kind very often... most of these avail ur unconditional help mostly emotional help & dont think twice before spiting venom against u...it shows their make...

the "i also exist " ones ... the ones whose existence is taken so much for granted that they need to work their asses out to make themselves felt... in other words the ones that show off to the extent that people get amused out of it....mock phone calls made when in a group to make the conversation highlighting expenses "heard" , deliberate mentions of the rich & the famous as if they r ur neighbours :) , deliberate increase in tone when a target is around, public display of affection ....r their few traits...

when i was a kid, my aaji always used to tell me..."aaplya barobarichya lokanshich maitri karaychi"...my aai always intervened that by "barobari" she meant equal or more in intellect but i always knew that by "barobari" aaji meant equal majorly in finance.... i didnt listen to either of them...how wud i have acquired a rich experience in observing different shades of people with respect to different setpus, natures & upbringings if i wud have only equals as my surrounding? :)